"He landed very hard on his lower back and is now resting, although quite uncomfortably.

He is very physical, hugging, kissing on cheek but has not tried to touch where he should not. Are there any American woman who can tell me if they have married a Mexican man and he did not become horriable? I would advise caution, not matter what race, simply because you seem to know very little about him, his family or his background.